BLESS Prompts

• Pray that God would open their eyes and soften their hearts to the truth of the gospel.

  "In their case the god of this world has blinded the minds of the unbelievers, to keep them from seeing the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who i the image of God." –2 Corinthians 4:

  "And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit within you, and cause you to walk in my statutes and be careful to obey my rules." –Ezekiel 36:26–27

• That they would seek to know God.
  
  "that they should seek God, and perhaps feel their way toward him and find him. Yet he is actually not far from each one of us," –Acts 17:27

• That they would believe the Scriptures.
  
  "For the word of the cross is folly to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God." –1 Corinthians 1:18

• That God would draw them to Himself.

  "No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws him. And I will raise him up on the last day." –John 6:44

• That the Holy Spirit would convict their hearts.
  
  "And when he comes, he will convict the world concerning sin and righteousness and judgment…" –John 16:8

• For the words and opportunity to share the Gospel with them.

  "Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person." –Colossians 4:6

• Pray that God would bless their marriage, their family, their work, their health, etc. 

• Pray for anything specific that you know is going on in their life. 

Asking questions is the best way to build a relationship with someone. Here are 10 great questions to get you started…

1. What’s your favorite thing to do in your free time?

2. Where did you grow up, and what was it like?

3. Did you grow up religious? 

4. What led you to the work that you do?  The degree your pursuing? 

5. Who has had the biggest impact on your life?

6. What’s a goal or dream you’re currently working toward?

7. What’s one of the most memorable trips you’ve ever taken?

8. Do you have a favorite family tradition or holiday memory?

9. What motivates or inspires you the most?

10. If you could change one thing in your life, what would it be? 

These questions help uncover someone’s interests, background, and values, creating opportunities for meaningful connection.  You can these questions to the everyday questions of asking “how” someone is doing. 

This could be any situation where you’ve intentionally reached out to build a connection with someone.

For example: 

• Grabbing coffee or a meal together.

• A playdate with the kids.

• Intentional conversation in the stands at a game or at the after party.

• A round of golf.

• Talking to neighbors in the front yard.

Here are some examples of serving someone…

1. Help with Practical Needs: Offer to mow a neighbor’s lawn, shovel snow, or help with home repairs.  

2. Providing a Meal: Cook dinner for a friend who is going through a busy or challenging time.  

3. Babysitting: Watch someone’s kids to give them a break or allow them time for other commitments.  

4. Offering a Ride: Drive someone to an appointment, work, or an event if they lack transportation.  

5. Supporting Financially: Pay for someone’s groceries, a meal, or a utility bill during a time of need.  

6. Share Resources: Lend tools, books, or other items that could help meet their needs or interests.  

7. Celebrate with Them: Help organize or participate in celebrating their milestones, like birthdays, promotions, or graduations.  

8. Connect Them to Opportunities: Help someone network or find resources for a job, education, or community support.

By deeply understanding the redemptive story and being prepared to share your own, pray for the Holy Spirit to guide you with the right timing and words to share the love of Christ.

Often, people need to hear the Gospel multiple times before they place their trust in Jesus, and they also need to experience His love through you. This process may take weeks or even years—there’s no deadline. Simply focus on being a loving and faithful friend as God has called you to. 

If you make “going” a way of life, then you’ll be blessed by seeing those you love come to the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ.